The Importance of Values

We tend to not do actions randomly.  Dedication of our time shows if we care about something. Our actions usually show our values and beliefs. If you are striving to reach a certain goal or to be on a certain path in life, it is important to make sure your values and beliefs align with that goal or path. The people you surround yourself with are also important because they can push you to stay on your desired path or they can distract you from it. Remember, you shouldn't compromise your values for anything. This does not mean you can't change your values ever. We are human. We make mistakes. We should always stay open to other opinions, viewpoints, and values. We should learn and adapt, so that the values you hold are good for you, others, and the world. The line should be drawn when you know something is wrong but you are pressured into doing it. If you are a people pleaser, make sure you realize the root of what your people pleasing comes from. After watching Reid Olson's video on "Nice Guy Syndrome" on Instagram, I learned people pleasing comes from valuing someone else's friendship or approval of you over your own values, beliefs, and wants. You can be easily manipulated if your values are wishy washy. If you are searching for an identity, people pleasing will make you feel more lost. Stand strong by your values. Hold them dear. They help shaped who you are and will help shape who you will become. Don't risk your future by not having strong values!